Paul you have been our friend for many years and you will leave a gap in our lives that will be impossible to fill. Rest in Peace Paul with all our love Simon and Julie x

Special thoughts of our dear friend Paul. We have spent many happy times together,holidays,weekends away and enjoying dinner round the table, sampling your delicous food ! You liked nothing better than preparing food for friends which you did with such innovation! We will never forget your kindness to Philip and myself when we lost our business and had to relocate to Manchester! You helped us so much with the move ! P aul you will be sadly missed !

Please accept our condolences on the loss of your Father Paul Mesens; our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Thank you for setting up a Tribute Fund; we very much appreciate you kindly choosing to support the charity in memory of your loved one. Our helpline, support groups, publications and guides are all funded by donations like yours – thank you for thinking of us and wanting to help others.